Ashamed of cousin bit of a rant.......ur thoughts please on how i should handle this?

My cousin and I are pretty close but not so much anymore. I know these are shady, mean thoughts, but shes gained soo much weight for the last few years, I feel embarresed going out with her. Its like food is always on her mind, as soon as we get to the mall she wants to go to the food court then she complains that shes huge( shes almost 300 pounds). When she eats she just stares at her food and she doesnt know what else is going on around her.





She's stopped talking to me before because of a guy, and as soon as they broke up, she wanted to make things better with me. I forgave her, but it happened again twice...she didnt exactly stop talking to me but this guy she was dating called my house cursing my father,and leaving porn msgs on my house phone for fun!. And she wouldnt even talk to him about it, she basically didnt care. And to top it off....she never even met this guy. She met him through me and they started talking, she sent him a fake photo of herself. He would ask her to meet up but she always had excuses. This story is pathedic as hell but I have to cut it short (sorry guys ha). Long pathedic story short he found out what she really looked like and stoped talking to her.





So the other day she told me her current bf gave her an STD. He hid it from her the first time he gave it to her ( yes she got it twice) and made her think she gave it to HIM. Now it's a possiblity that she gave it to other guys (one just happens to be a guy i went to school with) She doesnt use protection (shes had an abortion already). These are just SOME examples.








Shes an idiot and im sick of her and her actions. But shes my cousin......I dont want there to be a grudge and us stop talking again. But she obviously doesnt care if shes willing to put losers over me..Why should I?Ashamed of cousin bit of a rant.......ur thoughts please on how i should handle this?
Too much information! But I see your point. Key is you are ';sick of her and her actions';. Her life is disgusting to you and you dont want to be a passenger on her slow motion train wreck. You should be careful you dont need her to make you look good by comparison, check yourself first, then try to find activities to do with her that are healthy and non food related and if shes not interested then its her choice, encourage her to get some counseling for her food addiction and tell her you hope she gets happier soon. Then get on with your life and get busy with your own choices, make them great. I hope she comes around, and I like that you still care about her, just become part of the solution not the problem. Hers and yours.

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